Reality dictates future actions and outcomes

Reality dictates your future actions.

The basics of any venture are important

The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. If you wait until you’re ready, you’ll be waiting for the rest of your life. Work with people you like, who treat you well and forget the ones who don’t. Stay focused on the solutions, not the problems. While reality dictates, have faith in your actions, take the first step even when you can’t see the whole staircase.

 “I’m very good at what I do; I’m going to start a business”. That’s great, but there is more to running a business than being technically competent. You need to start with the basics because if you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, you will never be the best at it. However, to enjoy what you’re doing make sure the basics are in place and remember that great things never came from comfort zones.  http://goo.gl/T2TM4GImproved quality of life

This concept of a better quality of life will be slow to reality unless you are taking the right actions to improve it. Once you have determined what happened to cause a relapse in the quality of your life, decide what replacement behaviours you want to practice. Uncover the real quality of life by picking up the pieces.

Break your old routines

Start today, reality dictates when you maintain old routines. Do something different every day to break bad habits and acquire useful ones. Get out of the rut and create new pathways to your future reality. Take a different route to work, get up earlier or, do something spontaneous.

Create a new Business Model and Business Plan

You need to start devoting quality time to these important documents reality creates. They outline your vision for the future, the structure of your organisation, the roles and responsibilities of the people involved, marketing, operational details and the financial arrangements. You need to show how your business model works and how it will perform well, all day, every day.

Become an active member of a community

It’s simple when reality dictates, engage and help your community and they will engage and help you. The reality is about creating new conversations, that will lead to new relationships, better health and better businesses as well as nicer places in which to live.

Seek some practical advice on how your reality dictates your actions

Sometimes you will find it difficult to see the reality of your situation. Seek help from people who have had similar experiences to what you’re proposing. Business is too hard to do by yourself. The speed from now to when the reality of the better future comes about can be considerably speeded up with good advice.


Seek practical people to point out old routines needing an upgrade.

Start your days in a positive way

Concentrate on your strengths instead of your weaknesses, on your positive attributes instead of your problems. The world doesn’t reward mediocrity, so it pays to avoid negativity and negative people. If you’re being held back by the negative people around you, maybe it’s time to change the people. You only have to prove things to yourself and your family, not the whole world.

Be aware of people making judgments and dictating reality

Are incorrect judgments being made about your decisions for your future? Probably, that is the reality of human nature. Your image in business is essential; you need customers and prospects to make confident judgements about your business. Right or wrong, your customers and prospects will make snap judgments about you and your business. Unless you can afford to lose customers, you can’t afford to project an unprofessional image. Common marketing mistakes could inadvertently,  http://goo.gl/jjKXjMGreat things never came from comfort zones

Stop comparing yourself to other people and build the future you want. It will be the choices you make, and the chances you take, that will determine the closeness to your desired and better future. Keep reminding yourself that you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing, or what others expect of you. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Doing the same old things, in the same old way, and expecting a different outcome is an impossibility.

Stay calm, stop stressing about your current reality, just let it happen

Things usually work out for the best, if you have planned well and done your homework. Never give up hope, because you never know, it could still happen. Whenever you feel weak, remember the things that make you feel strong.


No one to talk to, talk out loud to your dog, and listen carefully to what comes out of your mouth.

Write yourself a letter

Dear past, thanks for all the lessons. Dear future, I’m now ready to take action and do whatever it takes to build a better future. Start now to accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear. In the letter to yourself, you might find it useful to describe the old reality and compare it with the new, or proposed existence.

Don’t let too much of the past dictate reality

It is so easy to dwell in the past that you can lose sight of what you are trying to accomplish for your better future.

Celebrate your successes

Don’t wait until you reach your better future by letting reality dictates. Enjoy the journey and the little victories along the way. It will be celebrations which reinforce the new reality.

Do not give up

The beginning is always the hardest. It will take the time to make any significant shifts towards a better future when reality dictates. Remember it is still darkest just before the dawn. It has taken you this long, so a little longer won’t matter. Expect the right outcomes and keep working on the actions to make it happen. There are never any guarantees, only more opportunities to act. Make every day count and remember the small steps add up.

By helping your community, it will respond more positively to assisting you in taking your next actions.

Quotable quotes

“First comes thought; then organisation of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination”. Napoleon Hill

“Reality dictates future actions only when you don’t focus on reality and keep doing the things which work well for you”. Peter Sergeant

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